How to be a secondary virgin

Temilolu Okeowo

Hi Temilolu,

I’m 62 years of age, a gentleman and an avid reader of your column. Your article of Saturday, December 27 (CAN I BE A SECONDARY VIRGIN?) is a master piece and I am looking forward to the conclusion. Please be simple in your choice of words so that the 14-18 years old girls can understand the messages you are passing across. Thanks.

Abayomi Aire, Ibadan

Hello Aunty Temilolu,

I am always so happy and thrilled to read your column every Saturday. My dream is to meet the very talented Aunty Temilolu. I appreciate and love you so much and pray that God will reward you. I crammed your final word and I always recite it to my friends. They look at me in awe and I say “thanks to Aunty Temilolu’s Girls Club.”

Esther (15), Ogun State

My Great Nigerian Sisters,

I welcome you all to 2015-your year of great glory and wondrous manifestation of your destiny! I assure you, no longer shall the sun be your light by the day nor the moon be your light by night because as you make up your mind to be a secondary virgin and stay chaste, God will be your light and showcase you to the world in Jesus name. AMEN!

Sex was designed by God to be enjoyed by two people married to each other but sadly, the enemy of our existence, the devil, daily uses it to war against us and deprive us of the goodness of God (believe it or not). Girls, ladies and women all over the world need some serious mental renovation which I’ll be discussing today.

Mental Renovation

This is a time-tested and the most potent weapon in curbing the desires of the flesh.

“Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”

Proverbs 4:23

What this means is that the mind is the seat of our intelligence and it determines what happens in our lives. As such, wrong thinking brings wrong action while right thinking brings right action. Unfortunately, the devil fights for the mind of men to control their thoughts and control their lives. He has instant and immediate access to anybody’s mind. He has a complete picture of our thoughts and imagination including our motives, intentions and secret ambitions. He is familiar with every weakness and strength that we have and can plant whatever he wants in our hearts if we allow him. Now, how can one fight this corruption of the mind? You’d recall I mentioned a super force that can help us out in last week’s article. Now, check this out…

“Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the Lord unto Zerubbabel(Morounke, Chidinma, Fatima), saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the Lord God of hosts.”

Zech.4:6

What a good God! He has all the answers to every challenge He knows we have to deal with. He expects us to live a victorious life by being filled with His spirit which is the spirit of holiness-doing things God’s way, resisting the devil and fleeing from all appearances of evil. And we are even told that as many as are led by the Spirit of God are the sons of God. Now, if you are a son (daughter) of God, would you feel comfortable sitting with girls who would only talk about sex? Would there be unholy thoughts in your mind? Would you watch pornography? Would you masturbate? Would you wear seductive clothes? Would you succumb to the pressure of guys to engage in sex? Would God let you walk into a trap set for you to get you raped? NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!

Sisters…Sisters…Sisters…how many times did I call you? Hmm…you are missing o! You have to shine like the star that you are this year, surrender your lives to God today. Accept Jesus Christ as your lord and Saviour today and let him control your life and lead you to your original glory!

To be continued

The Girls Club of Nigeria is aimed at influencing a positive change in the female folk and re-orientating the Nigerian girl. Amongst other things, to promote and enhance the development of girls by instilling a sense of self-worth, competence, usefulness, belonging and influence while of course restoring traditional moral values and encouraging the girls to toe the paths of righteousness. If this generation can make amends, the next generation will come out clean. Don’t you think so? I love you all and I think you are all wonderful sisters!

For more inspiring articles and prayers against sexual perversion (masturbation, lesbianism, addiction to pornography and immoral thoughts etc.)please visit my blog www.temiloluokeowo.wordpress.com

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 Dear girls,

As designed by God, your virginity is the bedrock of your destiny. It is your spiritual beauty. It carries the star, potential and talent which God created with you to make you unique. It is the star in your sky. Please don’t pollute your destiny. The world is waiting for your star to shine! Your curiosity about sex and the way your body feels is normal. However, there’s so much you need to know which may eventually condition your mind and calm your desires. For now, DON’T dabble into it please.